domingo, 8 de septiembre de 2013

True partnership

In a true partnership, the kind worth striving for, the kind worth insisting on, and even, frankly, worth divorcing over, both people try to give as much or even a little more than they get. "Deserves" is not the point. And "owes" is certainly not the point. The pont is to make the other person as happy as we can, because their happiness adds to ours. The point is -- in the right hands, everything that you give, you get.
The chance to love and be loved exists no matter where you are.

Being heard is so close to being loved that for the average person they are almost indistinguishable.

All intimacy is rare -- that's what makes it precious. And it involves the revelation of one's self and the loving gaze upon another's true self (no makeup, no fancy car, no defensive charm, no seduction) -- that's what makes it so damn hard. Intimacy requires honesty and kindness in almost equal measure (a little more kindness, I think), trust and trustworthiness, forgiveness and the capacity to be forgiven . . . It's more than worth it -- just don't let them tell you it's bilss.

The moment we choose to love we begin to move against domination, against oppression. The moment we choose to love we begin to move towards freedom, to act in ways that liberate ourselves and others. That action is the testimony of love as the practice of freedom.

Love sometimes wants to do us a great favor: hold us upside down and shake all the nonsense out.

We are
People who need to love, because
Love is the soul's life,
Love is simply creation's greatest joy.

We don't need sugar, flour or rice or anything else. We just want to see our dear ones.

You can't punish yourself into change. You can't whip yourself into shape. But you can love yourself into well-being.

It doesn't matter how long we may have been stuck in a sense of our limitations. If we go into a darkened room and turn on the light, it doesn't matter if the room has been dark for a day, a week, or ten thousand years -- we turn on the light and it is illuminated. Once we control our capacity for love and happiness, the light has been turned on.

To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.

Loving-kindness and compassion are the basis for wise, powerful, sometimes gentle, and sometimes fierce actions that can really make a difference -- in our own lives and those of others.

Pursue some path, however narrow and crooked, in which you can walk with love and reverence.

There is always something left to love. And if you ain't learned that, you ain't learned nothing.

The ultimate lesson all of us have to learn is unconditional love, which includes not only others but ourselves as well.

I don't like to discuss my marriage, but I will tell you something which may sound corny but which happens to be true. I have steak at home. Why should I go out for hamburger?

True love stories never have endings.

Love is the whole history of a woman's life, it is but an episode in a man's.

Love is more than a noun -- it is a verb; it is more than a feeling -- it is caring, sharing, helping, sacrificing.

Even after all this time,

We are told that people stay in love because of chemistry, or because they remain intrigued with each other, because of many kindnesses, because of luck. But part of it has got to be forgiveness and gratefulness.
he sun never says to the earth,
"You owe me."
Look what happens with
A love like that.
It lights the whole sky. 

Love and kindness are never wasted. They always make a difference. They bless the one who receives them, and they bless you, the giver.

I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you. I love you not only for what you have made of yourself, but for what you are making of me. I love you for the part of me that you bring out.

The modern fairy tale ending is the reverse of the traditional one: A woman does not wait for Prince Charming to bring her happiness; she lives happily ever after only by refusing to wait for him -- or by actually rejecting him. It is those who persist in hoping for a Prince Charming who are setting themselves up for disillusionment and unhappiness.

We must develop and maintain the capacity to forgive. He who is devoid of the power to forgive is devoid of the power to love. There is some good in the worst of us and some evil in the best of us. When we discover this, we are less prone to hate our enemies.

Love life and life will love you back. Love people and they will love you back.

Love is patient, love is kind.
It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
It is not rude, it is not self-seeking.
It is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails.





 
  

Thank You, My Love

Dear ________,I just wanted to thank you! You know I don't think you realize how much you inspire me. I am so proud of the person you've become and are becoming. I understand you've been through a lot and you've made not the best of choices, but I can see that you have grown.Though truthfully I've always known from the very first time I met you to now, that you were a strong person.You are so full of wisdom about life that when you speak it really makes me think that I could stay there forever just to listen to your open mind, for it is peaceful and inviting.Andreas, you have become my awakening, you have helped me see things in a brighter way, In a happier, enlightening way. For I was once drowning from my own fears, completely cynical about love, about hope and security. I used to think that no one understood me and could ever.Then one day before I knew you personally, you flew into my thoughts and at that moment though I wasn't truly sure why you were there. Suddenly I felt reassured and a smile was brought to my heart. Somehow I believe deep down I knew I loved you then.When I got to know you a year later I realized I wasn't alone and that something inside of you was hurting similar to what constantly brought tears to my eyes. I went through a time in my life where I felt worthless unloved, continuously searching for happiness. I wasn't getting along with my family, and my friends were all hating each other, leaving me stuck in the middle, stressfully trying to pull things together.But, you made me laugh and forget everything that was going on. That year you became my escape, my survival. I don't think I could of made it through that year as strong as I did if you weren't in my life.Andreas, I thank you for all the fun times we spent together even if they were short lived. Now over the years I have come to this conclusion you must have been an angel sent by God to help me grieve and become a strong willed woman because no one has ever been able to help me see the light. Clouds of darkness shadowed over me no matter what any other soul would say, but you make me smile with just your presence.You don't have to say a word; everything's okay when you're beside me. You know I thank God every day for the amazing people he has brought into my life because each and every one of them has changed my life in a very beautiful dramatic way.And I believe people are brought into your life for a reason, a way in which to guide you and help you see yourself. I like to call all those wonderful people my angels, my earthly angels. Andreas, you are one, and I thank you once again from the bottom of my heart. And though we may never be, just know you will always live in my heart.
Love always

lunes, 15 de julio de 2013

Boyfriend

Funny Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend:
1) What would be that one thing that you would want to change in me?
2) Would you like seeing me in mini skirts and off shoulder tops?
3) Would you want me to try smoking, alcohol and other stuff?
4) Do you get jealous when you see me getting close to one of my friends?
5) A naughty one, if you were to kiss me then where you would want to?
6) In your next life, would you want to be my lover once again?
7) Whom do you love the most; your Father or your mother?
8) What are the craziest and the most beautiful gift that you have ever received?
9) What would be that one thing that you would like to change about your family?
10) If you could get a plastic surgery done, which would, you look like? Why?
11) If I discover you lying to me, what will be your reaction?
12) What can you cook for me?
13) Would you mind building a sand castle on the beach with me?
14) Would you like to enjoy a bath with me amidst the yellow and pink rose petals?

domingo, 3 de febrero de 2013

Quotes about love

Don’t wait until it’s too late to tell someone how much you love and how much you care about them, Because when they’re gone, no matter how loud you shout and cry, they won’t hear you anymore.
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Love is not just about finding a good partner. it is also about being a good one
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Any person can say that they love you. only a few will actually prove it .

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be with someone who knows exactly what they have when they are with you. Not someone who realizes it after they’ve lost you.
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Sometimes, people choose to leave not because of selfish reasons. But they just know that things will get worse if they stay.
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When someone walks out of your life, let them. There’s no use in wasting your time on people that leave you. What you make of yourself and your future is no longer tied to them. Yeah, you may miss them. But remember that you weren’t the one that gave up.
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One day, he’s going to text you. That day, you’re going to realize he means nothing to you. He’s just another guy. Just another guy, you wasted your time on, tried to look good for, and tried to impress. He’s just another bad memory. You’re going to remember how much you like him, and miss him, but at the same time how much you hate him. Instead of getting all excited over this one message, that can mean the world to you, but nothing to him, just click erase and move on with your life. He’s not worth it.
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I hate the way you talk to me. And the way you cut your hair. I hate the way you drive my car. I hate it when you stare I hate your big dumb combat boots. And the way you read my mind. I hate you so much it makes me sick– it even makes me rhyme. I hate the way you’re always right. I hate it when you lie. I hate it when you make me laugh — even worse when you make me cry. I hate it that you’re not around. And the fact that you didn’t call. But mostly I hate the way I don’t hate you – - not even close, not even a little bit, not even at all.
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If there ever comes a day when we can’t be together…Keep me in your heart, I’ll stay there forever.
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I can go days without talking to you, months without seeing you, but not a second goes by that I don’t think about you.
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If there ever comes a day when we can’t be together…Keep me in your heart, I’ll stay there forever.
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I miss you when something good happens, because you’re the one I want to share it with. I miss you when something is troubling me, because you’re the one that understands me so well. I miss you when I laugh and cry, because I know that you are the one that makes my laughter grow and my tears disappear. I miss you all the time, but I miss you the most when I lay awake at night, and think of all the wonderful times that we spent with each other for those were some of the best and most memorable times of my life.
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There comes a moment in our lives when we feel alone, we feel scared as can’t solve some problems by ourselves. And this is the moment when we wish a person, a person who keeps us safe and will be there for us.
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"You've gotta dance like there's nobody watching,
Love like you'll never be hurt,
Sing like there's nobody listening,
And live like it's heaven on earth.” 
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Darkness cannot drive out darkness: only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate: only love can do that.”
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“The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference. The opposite of art is not ugliness, it's indifference. The opposite of faith is not heresy, it's indifference. And the opposite of life is not death, it's indifference.”
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Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.” 

domingo, 27 de enero de 2013

My Love For You

My Love For You
My love for you is forever
My love for you always grows
My love for you is always here
Even though the whole world knows
My love for you won't fade
My love for you won't go away
My love for you is always here
And nothings getting' in its way
I know my love for you will be tested
I know my love for you is challenged everyday
I know my love for you will never give up
Because my love for you is here to stay
Now my love for you is in your heart
And that's where I want it to be
Cuz' my love for you was here from the start
It's just now you hold the key.

A Poem For A Special Someone

Author: dence_frecille03 You are my inspiration. Having you in my life revived my sleeping devotion. You are indeed a special someone. Loving you gives me hope to free this misery that I coped. In those times I gave up You came and I stood up. Never will I forget how you always cheer me up every time I'm sad and for that I'm glad. Whenever I'm lonely You are there for me keeping my heart alive with your every smile. I dedicate this poem to you to show how much you mean to me - I love you My special someone!